I am still angry at my ex for suggesting he wants to make my wedding ring into 2 separate rings for the girls. The diamond is from my grandmothers engagement ring and the only thing of hers i have and the 3 different golds are from my mothers engagement and wedding rings. We have been separated 8 years and the only reason i havent asked for it back was because he wouldnt give it to me when i was moving around after we separated he thought i would pawn it, idiot. Justa control freak and later he left town and didnt know if he had it packed away in storage. Also its not the thing that think of alot. Also i didnt want to ask for it back in case he thought i thought it meant something, ie the marriage meant something again.