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Originally Posted by divine1966
He probably thinks this is just the matter of time before you let him back in. This back and forth has been happening from before you two were even married so maybe he doesn’t think it’s over. Just another turn and twist in your relationship’s dynamics. I am actually sure he thinks it’s temporary set back.
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He doesn't want to believe it's over. He says I changed from telling him "I love you" in the morning to kicking him out that evening, all in one day.
And yes, I changed my tune in one day. But it wasn't really in one day. It was in the last two months, and it was already building to this point.
He does think it's just temporary because he's in shock. It hasn't sunken in yet that I truly mean it.
It's also because he hasn't listened to a single word I've said over the last 2 months, he's ignored my expressions of serious doubt, and he's believed only what he wanted to believe. He did this to himself.