So Sorry for your Losses! i agree with the wise and wonderful MsLady. There are shelters to accomodate women who are in bad situations like you seem to be so if you have the chance definitely try to move immediately. It seems like you're already packing your things and i think that is a wise decision if that environment is truly dangerous for you and your Family. Please do keep us updated if you can and want to. Stay Safe and call the police if it proves necessary. i Hope and Pray to God that things will turn out Well for all of you and everyone. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Noninde, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!