Thanks everyone!

I do want the boxes out ASAP. He will want them, I know. One has family photo albums. He just didn’t see them before because they were underneath my own stuff in our storage. He’s coming Monday after work to pick up tax papers so I’ll have him take the boxes then. That way, it will be the last of it and there no further reason for him to come to my home.

As far as safety goes, there’s no reason for a mediator or anything like that. We’re more amicable than that and there’s no threat of violence.

@Bill3, you make a really good point about his motives! He did sound like he was trying to gain something for himself! I didn’t see it that way at first, but I do see your point. Of course everything is about him getting what HE needs, so of course his so called loving gestures toward me are really in order to gain something for himself. Grrrr...

I am so resentful of him right now.