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Default Apr 23, 2021 at 03:48 PM
 
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Well she knew before they even got married but so what. Most people know that their relationship sucks early on but most people still stick around.

When we are lonely, we tend to be in denial.

Now she didn’t stay that long. She was out after just a year and a half of marriage. Many people stay miserable with wrong people for way longer and some spend their whole life in denial. So I think Hope got the real picture pretty quick
I was never in denial. I chose to move forward for specific reasons just before the wedding when I realized full on he was abusive. It wasn’t loneliness then either. It was not wanting to lose eight thousand dollars. I was also stuck in an apartment lease and had no way to move out and neither did he. I moved forward, hoping for the best but I saw trouble and certainly wasn’t in denial.

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