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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I was never in denial. I chose to move forward for specific reasons just before the wedding when I realized full on he was abusive. It wasn’t loneliness then either. It was not wanting to lose eight thousand dollars. I was also stuck in an apartment lease and had no way to move out and neither did he. I moved forward, hoping for the best but I saw trouble and certainly wasn’t in denial.
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Oh ok. My bad.
I didn’t know you stayed with him for those reasons. I thought you could still stay on the lease and go on vacation together but not be married if you know he is abusive. Always easier to get out. I never thought those would be the reasons!
Lease and money spent on vacation is unusual reason to get married, but heck I did some strange things in life myself. I can sure say I was in denial several times in my life!