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Originally Posted by divine1966
Oh ok. My bad.
I didn’t know you stayed with him for those reasons. I thought you could still stay on the lease and go on vacation together but not be married if you know he is abusive. Always easier to get out. I never thought those would be the reasons!
Lease and money spent on vacation is unusual reason to get married, but heck I did some strange things in life myself. I can sure say I was in denial several times in my life!
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Yeah.. at the time I also really wanted to get married. I was 48 and tired of dating. Lots of reasons, really. At the time I thought I was being practical. I also couldn’t deal with a breakup then. Too much to get into and it’s neither here nor there. We’re divorcing and I’ve left him.. that’s what matters now.