He’s been silent the last day or two, with only one text and call to let me know his father was rushed to the hospital for an emergency blood transfusion.

I had asked my husband to keep me posted about his father. What I meant was not every time he goes back to the hospital, but if he actually dies. I didn’t want to be completely calloused towards him after he supported me through work and a hospitalization.

But do I want every update? NO.

I did this out of having a heart, now I’m regretting it because it keeps us in touch.