So Sorry that things are being difficult. How serious do you think this friction is? i think it is normal to have disagreements over things, the important part i'd say is to learn to accept them. i think it is fair of you to make your voice heard if something is wrong. Perhaps you can try to ask your Husband what exactly makes him feel judged about what you're saying. Is it his own guilt or something else? i think that may be something worth discussing. Perhaps couple counseling may be Helpful in addressing this if you feel like this may prove necessary. i think simply being Honest and reminding him that you Love him even in spite of his flaws if that is true may be good but of course that is just my opinion so take it with a grain of salt. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @purplemystery, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!