So... he wants you to think of him as being the smaller, weaker person who has to cheat to get what he feels he deserves, every time you enter your bedroom??

This guy sure knows how to turn on the romance!

Sorry for the sarcasm. I am just so angry at your h for tainting this for you. He is telling you who he is. He is telling you he does not care about your feelings. I would get the heck away.

The Buddhists say, "How you do anything is how you do everything." So there is nobody he wouldnt cheat or shortchange. How he is kind to anybody, i cant begin to imagine.