(( Rrazzleberry ))

Can you talk to him when things are calm and explain to him that one if his responsibilities as a dad is to teach your daughter how to appreciate others, how to celebrate life, how to give as well as receive graciously?

Father's Day is next. When your husband is home, prepare to take your daughter shopping and before you leave, you and she tell Daddy with excitement that you two are going out to buy (or going off to another room to make) something just for Daddy! That is, rather that do this while he's at work or out, do this when he's home so he see's how it's done and how it's about your daughter learning to think about others.

Make a kit with a list of things that would be meaningful to you, like a home made card, a framed picture colored by your daughter, her handprints in plaster of paris, etc. Then he'll have "directions" on how to do this for you....you know how men will not ask for directions

It sounds like he needs demos as well as instructions on this one. Keep working at it and talking about it