So sorry for what you've been through! i agree with the wise and wonderful RoxanneTotot about perhaps being hard to speak up when dealing with abusive situations. i also don't know why he didn't tell you anything or didn't do much to Help. Perhaps that would be something worth bringing up with him? i understand it is not easy to talk about it. i think it is a question worth asking to him though. That is just my opinion. It is up to you to decide. i do think it may be scary to speak up in certain work environments although it depends on the person as Well i think. i may be wrong obviously. Sending many Safe, Warm hugs to BOTH you, @NatalieJastrow, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!