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Originally Posted by divine1966
Shady people often appear quite convincing and sweet on the surface. Otherwise how would they get what they want? Not saying he is a con artist but they are always very charismatic.
Some people think they are just entitled (maybe raised that way) and nothing would stop them from trying to get what they think they are entitled for. When people catch on to it, they look for new victims. In your husbands case he also has substance abuse issue. Cocaine isn’t a joke.
You’ll be fine. Just need time to heal.
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He is charismatic - he's a salesman and can get people to do what he wants all the time at work.
And in the last few months, he's borrowed money from me, his roommate and his mother. Probably all to support a coke and drug habit, I am sure. I bet he kept a lot secret from me, including using porn when he knew I will not stand for that in a relationship/marriage.
He is ALL sweetness on the surface - pretending to be mr. generous, mr kind and mr good guy. It makes me ill in knowing what's really beneath the surface. A wolf in sheep's clothing.
And he is VERY entitled. He does as he likes, without any care of how it effects someone else. He is without conscience.
I think he IS a con artist - he conned me into believing he is an honest, FAITHFUL and eternally loving man. These are the things he told me he is in the beginning, and he is NOT any of these things.
I am SO glad I ended things again. SO glad.
Yes, this is going to take time.