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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
You can be disappointed poshgirl. Right now though you are practicing not allowing yourself to absorb. Talking about emotional blackmail with someone that is as old as your mother that has practiced it pretty much all of her life is not going to get the recognition you desire. And try to keep in mind that any "change" at this point probably won't last as your mother is just too used to following the same pattern of behavior.
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Open Eyes, thanks again!
I've channelled my energy into jobs around house and garden. Last Friday, I indulged in a hobby I hadn't been able to do because of lockdown. Really enjoyed it, except for mild sunburn
I do realise that she will not change. Suppose I'm expecting her to behave to my standards. All she can say when challenged is "I'm your mother, show me some respect". I do respect her for some things, but not her stance on the family rift.