I am really taken aback by how unconscionable and how much of a liar my narcissist husband is - on the surface, he is sweet, generous, loving and kind, but beneath that, he's a wolf in sheep's clothing.

He cheated and he lied. He lied numerous times to me - I think he lied a lot more than I even know about. When we first met, he told that he would never make me cry, hurt me, or cheat on me. And I believed him - yet, he did ALL THREE.

HOW in the world can someone behave this way? Be nice on the surface, yet be a mean, cruel, two-faced, lying, cheating bastard in reality?