I understand that this is the general case. However, I have come to feel and experience the love from my T - something I never felt from my mother. Sure, we can argue that the T-s love can never be so unconditional as it can be from a mother. However, I don't think it's necessarily very far from that. Also, I don't think that unconditional love means seeing me for free, forever, putting up with anything etc etc. But I do feel in my heart that his man truly wants the best for me and puts in his own effort to make it happen. I also have no doupts that he will love me also after we have parted ways.