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BrnEyedGrl said:
I think abuse and murder are two of the biggest area's where forgiveness sometimes is just not an option and I totally get that.

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((Jinnyann))

I agree with BrnEyedGrl when it comes to these two issues in particular. It's not something you can wipe clean and be done with. It's something that has to be worn and incorporated into your life somehow in a good way. Only you can decided when and how to accomplish this feat.

If you can't forgive this person, I don't blame you. In NO WAY does this make you a bad person.

You're in my prayers, and I hope you'll be able to find a way to let go of the anger you feel toward this person.