
Apr 29, 2021, 05:16 PM
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Originally Posted by leomama
No you don’t remember wrong , first he was married and then when I reconciled with him after I found out he was divorced he was living in a homeless shelter after abandoning the in law rental I had connected him with. Now he claims to have a bought a house in my city and is telling me I need to unwind things, ask forgiveness, fix things, that I swing wide.
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I just don't see what you have to "ask forgiveness" for? Why is it your job to fix things? He's a liar and gaslighting you, IMO.
I'm not telling you what to do, just giving you an opinion. I know it's hard to let go of things when a relationship ends. But I also think it's good for healing and moving on. It also cuts the emotional ties he still might have on you.
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Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
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