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Old Apr 29, 2021, 07:34 PM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
From what you are saying, it sounds to me like you are still wanting a relationship with him. Is he saying he is willing to resume the relationship if you ‘apologize and make things right’? But, from what you describe about him, he sounds really bad for you (and for anyone).

The things he gave you are just things. If you like them, keep them. If they are upsetting you because they remind you of him, get rid of them.

If you are calling him, but he won’t take your calls, it sounds like you are pursuing him and still wanting a relationship. So, it’s confusing to me that it isn’t necessarily over, but you are debating getting rid of reminders.
It sounds that relationship is over, but leomama wants to rekindle it. He refuses to pick up the phone and she previously said he wouldn’t meet her in person either. So maybe by getting rid of things she’d have easier time to move on. Although things like towels and sheets don’t really have sentimental value imho. I don’t feel attachment to towels. Jewelry is different I think, even if inexpensive. Just my opinion of course