@Jennifer 1967: Yes, lots of changes for you and the loss of traditions you treasure. I can see how you would be sad. Time is relentless. It marches on whether we like it or not. But you will enjoy seeing your daughter graduate, a proud moment to be sure. And you have a special birthday for yourself planned so you are being pro-active about the adjustments and making an effort to comfort yourself. I really admire that. My ZOOM groups have been so successful they are being continued even AFTER COVID! It's been discovered that it's an important additional method of reaching people. Sorry you will have a gap between ZOOM groups and IRL groups. I'm getting more active as my mood goes up with the Spring and i feel if i am scrupulous with the preventive measures it's a calculated risk i will take, especially now that some are vaxed. There's a risk to staying home too: isolation, boredom, boredom-eating, frustration, loneliness, missing out on life and worse...