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Originally Posted by eskielover
Maybe your logical thinking is what is in need of validation rather than the emotions. Feelings are just that....feelings, NOT FACTS. Sometimes self validation works best for emotions because we need to accept in our own mind that our feelings are accurate for the circumstances for what we are experiencing. When our emotions override our logicical thinking we create our own problems & when emotions do not speak the truth others will not validate them when they speak against what truth is. Emotions being validated is one thing, validating wrong thinking is a whole other thing
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Yes, precisely! My logical thinking needs validation. But I also need emotional validation too. He didn’t listen to me for the last two months. I feel completely powerless against him and without a voice. He chooses to hear what he wants and ignored everything important to me.