I discussed with my therapist sending the money from my SSA account and he agreed that it would give me peace of mind and allow me to fully disconnect and move on.

Part of me wants to have the argument with him. Wants to list out all the harmful things he's done, bring up all the childhood abuse, put it all out there in detail for him to refute. The problem is that you can't argue with a narcissist. He will deflect, change the subject, throw strawmen. Even this morning, when I pointed out that I had tried to reach out and given up, he ignored that and made it out that I wasn't trying, etc. He even signed his last email "with no pretense." The whole damn thing is pretense! His initial email was wholly a pretense because he sent it under the auspices that I didn't respond to him and then he admitted he hadn't even tried to reach out to me!

He is so disordered that he can't even see his own pretense. He literally reached out under a pretense then says "with no pretense."

I swear my brain can't even do enough somersaults to keep up with whatever distorted, dysfunctional thinking this is.

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