View Single Post
 
Old May 01, 2021, 05:16 PM
Anonymous43372
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
I did not take the bait my antagonistic sibling texted to me via text message again. She has smear campaigned my name and reputation to our birth family members and to our extended family members. Today she baited me and this is how i responded:

Her: We can't overlap visiting mom at the nursing home so I will be by there this afternoon.
Me: I am visiting her now this morning. I think mom enjoys having visitors more than once a day.
Her: I was going to visit mom between son 1 and son 2's stuff. Let's keep this informational. FYI: you need to report to me when you visit mom.
Me: My texts are always informational only. Thank you.

As you can see from my sister's text messages, she tried to bait me to argue with her about her need to micromanage me visiting our mother. I could have argued with her via text, but arguing with a narcissist is futile. When a narcissist gaslights you, fighting back (trying to reason) is futile.

What I could have texted back to her but didn't: "Coming from someone who is a nurse, who has flouted the nursing home essential visitor protocol for the past year never signing in at the front desk, or reporting her temperature per the wall thermometer there, I find your text ironic. You choose to flout the rules as a nurse, yet you have the gall to try to micromanage ME?"

You get the idea. She has not followed the nursing home rules for the past year about 1) use the wall thermometer 2) sign in your name, who you visit, and include your temperature.

I know this, because I've skimmed the sign in logs out of curiosity and I never see her name on the dates she has claimed to visit our mom. If our mom were passed away, we would not communicate with each other. She is a toxic person to my well being. I have to monitor everything I text b/c I know she will try to use it against me somehow.
Hugs from:
mote.of.soul, NatalieJastrow, RoxanneToto, Turtle_Rider
Thanks for this!
NatalieJastrow, RoxanneToto