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Razzleberry said:
I will definitely be trying some marriage counseling,

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">I think that is a good plan, RazzleB. I think counseling can really help with communication skills, which Doh2007 pointed out are so important. I did try to get my H to go to marriage counseling with me about 9 years before our marriage split, but he wouldn't go. What I didn't realize then, was that one member of a couple can go to marriage counseling by herself. I thought it had to be the couple. So when my H said no, he wouldn't go, I dropped the idea of counseling. I know now that if I had gone on my own, it could have helped also. So I encourage you to go, even if on your own. Good luck.