Hello all, I am honored to be amongst you. I just joined because my wife recently decided to leave me.She has said it before but this time is real.I have been a controlling a hole to her in the past and she wants to not feel that way.I looked in the mirror and understood the man I was and I have begun that change.I have promised my wife change before only for it not to be sustained. We love together and have been married 3 years and I’m not ready to let her go.I want to be a better person for myself and I want her to see the good in me.I have failed her repeatedly and she is just at a point where she just wants to be happy and I am not providing that. I want to be better and I also want to let her go be happy.I am struggling with being here everyday with her and having barely any conversations. I am constantly sad and I just want to have a support system that guides me through this because I’m a loner and I have a counselor who I talk to as well. I am just unsure of what to do and I am trying to give space and leave her alone and not tak about what I’m going through.Thank you for the help in advance