And that's definitely not what I want to be! After talking to one of my girlfriends last night I realize that I have to step back and let him find his own way. It's hard though, he tells me he wants me to be part of his process, and appreciates any "direction" I can give him. But maybe that's why none of his past counselling efforts have worked, maybe it's because I was trying to "do it for him".

I just hope he can find his way, and find happiness within himself. In the meantime, I think I'm better off concentrating on my own issues.