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Originally Posted by MisterPaul
1. You know he had a crush on you for years.
2. You’re both aware of your situations (you’re in the middle of a divorce, and he’s separated).
3. You invited him to your house during the night/evening time.
4. You allowed him to rub your feet and then legs.
Pretty unusual way of spending time with a friend… I would consider it to be invitation for something more. Sure, the guy is a f….. g idiot for going so fast instead of playing it slow, but this situation YOU put him in was very… ambiguous.
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Did you read through the entire post? He overstepped the boundaries and it was not an invitation for something more on my part. That's not fair of you to say. That's like blaming the victim of rape for the rapist's actions. We have been platonic friends for a very long time. Sure, we had fooled around years ago, but that was years ago. That doesn't invite a similar type of situation NOW. There's been plenty of times when he's given me back rubs with nothing more happening.