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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Since you don't know why your brother suddenly cut you out, do you know for certain if it has to do with your cousin, or perhaps it's other issues between you? Do you have other issues or points of contention between you and your brother? Has he brought issues to your attention that you've perhaps forgotten about?
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My suspicion is that he thought he was going to move over my house when he got divorced from his wife. But I put the kibosh on that...Weirdly though he did respond to me 2 months after I told him that... so it is really unclear.
However, my cousin fits in, in that, my brother feels "you do for family" including him and his desire to come freeload off of me because he can't or won't make his marriage work. So, it was a bone of contention because he wanted me to roll over do "do for family" with my cousin, as sort of a proxy as to my doing for him. Go out with her because she is your cousin, just like, let me stay over your house because I am your brother.
I suppose I feel I was only being tolerant of my cousin because I was worried about what my brother would say... now that he is gone -- in part due to her -- I feel like I should let her have it because I have ZERO desire to have her in my life ever, ever again.
I feel like she should get told off / pay a price. And I am done with being kind, which she has absolutely trampled on... the only thing holding me back right now from telling her off is that she is a millionaire and maybe if I kept my mouth shut I could get some money upon her death (but she is only about 10 years older than me).