i agree with the other wise and wonderful poster. i think it may be wise to simply tell the truth to your cousing. Try to be as much kind as possible. As for your borhter, i am So Sorry that things aren't working out. Try to contact him if possible but i am not sure if there's much that you can do besides that. Keep us posted if you want to. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @NatalieJastrow, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!