Dear Troubledman1989,

I am so sorry you are in the situation you describe. Wish I knew what to say to be helpful or to ease your pain and grief! Hopefully others here on the Forums . . . others more knowledgeable and insightful will see your post and respond to you with something really and truly useful. I am sorry that I don't know how to be helpful to you. What a heartbreaking situation.

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen