i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters. Please do consider going out for a bit when you feel stressed out. So Sorry this is happening. i think it can be hard to deal with parents as they get old. Is there anyone in your Family whom may be able to assist you and your Husband somehow? Please take things one step at the time. Just try to do the Best you can. Sorry if my post isn't really Helpful but i Hope things Improve between you and your Family. Sending many Safe, Warm hugs to BOTH you, @Werewoman, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!