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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I can try. I also don't want him to retaliate. I am trying to be socially political out of self protection. If I end things more nicely with him, he may not bad mouth me to our circle of friends. That's the last thing I want to deal with.
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He can badmouth you regardless. You can’t win with people like this. You have no control of what he does or says to people. It doesn’t matter if you are nice to him. He’ll do what he’ll do. Blocking or at least never ever responding to him is the one and only option. I had an ex making up a story of how he is dying on cancer in hopes I’ll come back, I won’t repeat the story as I already posted about it. But the only way to stop him was to block him. These people don’t stop at anything especially if they post or message this junk intoxicated, which your husband might be doing
File for divorce. Cut all communication. You’ve been separated since November. You could stop communication now. It will stop if you fully disengage.