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Originally Posted by RoxanneToto
There’s always the chance they won’t take his bad mouthing seriously, especially if they know how things have gone between you. I understand wanting to control this narrative and deflect his negative energy away from your friendships, because it feels like he’s trying to steal even more from you. Bottom line is, trying to control what he does/says is a waste of your precious energy. You can’t gag him (sadly) but your true friends will see his bad mouthing for what it is - a big bunch of sour grapes!
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You said it very accurately - he only gets to steal even more of my spirit away if he gets to our friends circle. It will kill me just that much more, and I am already half dead because of him.
I wish I could gag him, LOL.
But, as you said, friends will see he is only just spreading negativity, if it goes that way.