Keeping head down, being sweet and not making waves sounds like awful way to live. No offense to very traditional wives but this 2021, not 1721. The heck with keeping head down

Get real estate agent to show you few things virtually or in person, then do some calculations and see if your husband agrees. My husband is very agreeable but he was very apprehensive about moving, to be precise his OCD flares up at a thought of moving. I found the place I liked and started ball rolling, seeing how excited I was he is on board now so we are buying property I liked, he likes it now too.

Sure you can’t buy property without him being on board but you can start ball rolling like meeting with an agent and do online search.

Now I understand it’s not about buying a house but more about decision making. What if you don’t make decisions but make some steps towards a decision. Look up things. Then call a place. Then calculate etc You might not make final decision but you’ll take some steps