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I can always count on you to say something like this and make me laugh!

I once asked my h’s mom her secret to the long, happy marriage and she said she did everything he wanted.

There were plenty of decisions I had no hesitation to do. I have treated myself right when it came down to it. Have you ever seen the movie Defending Your Life? I love the scene where he spends his last dime to upgrade to first class!

I just have too much tug in several directions with this living situation. I’m extremely neurotic, and feel like who am I to demand what I think I want when he doesn’t want the same.

I’m glad you found a place you like. Another part of my hesitation is I look at listings for buy or rent and everything costs much more than what we have and isn’t half as nice. This has been the case for 25 years! We bought a house we thought we would eventually upgrade, then never did because everything was just much more expensive and not much nicer. If I could only pick up this house and place it down in another location...that would be great!

There was a nice home I thought I found where we want to go, seemed too good to be true. Then the agent disclosed to me it’s just over a train station and the train honks the horn every several minutes all day and night and you hear it!