Thread: The ending of my relationship
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Old May 05, 2021, 04:14 AM
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And I so wanted to post to this one too. I have exactly the same problem. I am establishing boundaries around all these people now, one by one. It's been so painful figuring this out and establishing the boundaries.

I again wish you luck with that, with No Contact and then healing without further hindrances. And yes, setting up those new boundaries!! With your friends or "friends". That is completely part of healing is what I'm finding.
Thank you, again. I have trouble with boundaries because I am a people pleaser and I don't like to create conflict.

I am having trouble right now at work because of one woman with whom I must create strong boundaries - it's very challenging and draining for me.

I am drained all around. It's hard for me to write at length right now in reply because I am SO drained in general.

Here's to our healing process.

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