While it perhaps would have been best to tell him about that from the start as i think Honesty is important that doesn't justify at all the reaction he had! i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters about leaving him! he didn't even give you a chance to explain things over and tried to physically assault you. i think that would be enough reason by itself to leave him. Plus, if he reacts that way how would he react with other things that may come up in your relationship? i am So Sorry you have to put up with this. Please do stay Safe. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Jessy1239, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!