Thread: The ending of my relationship
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Old May 06, 2021, 04:00 AM
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Originally Posted by Alive99 View Post
I agree too that going NC would help Have Hope more. But since they haven't completed the official divorce process yet I can understand if that's hard. Though the option of only communicating through the lawyer would work too...?
I no longer have a lawyer and cannot afford one.

It is hard since the divorce is not final... we have yet to even file for divorce!

I am looking into how to file on my own, since his own lawyer is dragging his heels, although, I missed the one time per month window yesterday to call "Dial a Lawyer" in my state yesterday. My therapist told me last night that I can go directly to the court and work with a lawyer there on how to file for divorce. I want to get this going ASAP, so I will likely need to file on my own.

Other life issues are taking precedence right now though.
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Last edited by Have Hope; May 06, 2021 at 04:16 AM.