So Sorry you and your wife are struggling! Please do stay strong! i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters about you and your Wife needing some space and time. i'd also suggest therapy perhaps or even couple counseling if she wants to. i Hope things will work out overall. Hugs. Hopefully things will improve soon for everyone. Do think about what you both need. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Troubledman1989, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!