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Originally Posted by Have Hope
When I first skimmed your post, I thought you had known him a couple months, but it's only a couple weeks! SLOW DOWN!!! You've met four times and you're in love? You're rushing things again. This man had NO photo on his profile. He still could be married, OR abusive... or an a-hole. I'm glad you're happy so far, but all along this last year, you've rushed to conclusions about every man based on a few communications and 1 meeting - now it's 4 meetings and you're in love. Please be careful and slow down. You don't know much about this man. It takes far more than 4 meetings to get to know someone and come to any real conclusions - that takes months.
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Thank you for replying!! Yes, I understand. He did not have a pic because he had his identity stolen before. I do know it will take months before we are solidified as a couple. He is the first man who has been decent to me. I am hoping for the best!!! So far he has been a gem. He is really sweet. I will take my time with him. SO, thank you for your advice.