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Originally Posted by divine1966
Nothing wrong with being a homemaker. But now when kids are grown you can be something else. A new life. You could stay married but you can still reclaim your life. Maybe if you got out of the house for 8 hours or maybe even 4 hours and had to worry about work task completion, there would be less time or energy to worry about your husband. Just a suggestion of course
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That’s what I was hoping to try to do after the pandemic. But, it’s non stop dysfunction bringing me down.
At first when he came back in tonight, he denied what he said. I asked him to please stop gaslighting me.
Now he is saying he has no idea how we went from getting along this morning to the break up of a marriage. He can’t take any responsibility for anything he did or said!
It just sucks.
Then I always end up going back on myself and back down from ending it, saying I want to try to make it work. It never works. I will probably do it again.
“Insanity is doing the same behavior and expecting different results.”