A lot of people do that.

Obviously, people who know us well, and who we have been intimate with will have the best weapon to do so.

I've experienced it plenty myself.

I got some of the cPTSD from it. The triggers and stuff.


Anyway just saying.



I do think divine1966's suggestion makes sense, based on that. More space. Go do some work that you always wanted to do, have your own life, don't rely on him for your happiness. This lockdown is extreme stress for everyone, don't make decisions while under that extreme stress. If you still want to divorce him after the pandemic with more space and with your own life still not being enough, do so then. My two cents.