He is really decent. He texts me twice a day and never says anything negative. He spends his down time with me. If he were married, I think his spending so much time with me would give off warning bells to his colleagues and workers. His co-workers know about me because I gave him food which he gave to his co-workers. I do understand everyone's concern though. Believe me, I've met a few jerks and snakes. And, because of my past experiences, I know a snake now from the initial meeting. He is no snake. And, he is the real deal. I am really happy!!