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Default May 08, 2021 at 08:05 AM
 
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
If I’d toss out his belongings, he would wage war against me in any way he can. I’d never do such a disrespectful thing to anyone. If (when?) we really part, I’d certainly let him take his stuff.
Well then you keep living in the clutter. And park on the street.

I don’t recommend people throw away each other stuff. I don’t do such things either but why is it ok for him to disrespect you by not letting you park in the garage but it’s unacceptable for you to clear up the space for parking your car there. Why such imbalance. I know I’d be deeply depressed and anxious living in a mess, clutter and surrounded by stuff that isn’t even used. I am not surprised you are crying every day. I feel stressed just reading about it.

See we all live with choices we make. If you don’t want to rock the boat and disrespect your husband then you’d keep living like this and be unhappy. I am not saying you need to get a divorce but you sure should be able to park your car in a garage
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