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Originally Posted by divine1966
Well then you keep living in the clutter. And park on the street.
I don’t recommend people throw away each other stuff. I don’t do such things either but why is it ok for him to disrespect you by not letting you park in the garage but it’s unacceptable for you to clear up the space for parking your car there. Why such imbalance. I know I’d be deeply depressed and anxious living in a mess, clutter and surrounded by stuff that isn’t even used. I am not surprised you are crying every day. I feel stressed just reading about it.
See we all live with choices we make. If you don’t want to rock the boat and disrespect your husband then you’d keep living like this and be unhappy. I am not saying you need to get a divorce but you sure should be able to park your car in a garage
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There has always been such imbalance. That’s why I am so unhappy and crying everyday. Every word you say is spot on. I looked the other way about the clutter our whole marriage. I can’t even have people come over, it’s so embarrassing, and he probably does that on purpose.
I need to work on my self esteem and figure out who I am, what do I like, and get the balls to do something to make myself happy.
I am not okay with his nasty comment he said intentionally to hurt me.
I asked him to go away and do his own thing from here going forward. I think he left the house. His insisting that he has to be here for an 18 y/o who stays by himself in his room or goes out with friends is ludicrous.
