I agree with both eskie and seesaw in that it’s important learn how to interact with others that may not have the social skills preferred. The idea of needing to win can result in further participating in engaging with another person that is unhealthy.

I know for myself that it’s pointless to engage with someone that has to feel they are the winner with every interaction. That is when one has to learn to develop better ways to deal with conflict where it reduces continuing the futility.