
May 08, 2021, 11:13 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
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Originally Posted by divine1966
I think in absence of actual diagnosis many things are subjective. A lot of is an opinion.
Some people describe some horrendous unacceptable events in their lives and claim it’s all good and dandy while I am mortified to hear such things and some describe events as toxic while I think it’s just everyday routine that everyone deals with on a daily basis. .
So it all depends. Much of it is a perception. Unless of course it’s an actual diagnosis or something universally unacceptable, which are very few things.
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Totally agree.
Also, Perception is relative to our own personal skills of being able to handle certain situations. I know certain situations I find myself in it is just a matter of figuring out what action I need to take while for others it would be totally overwhelming.
Even with a diagnosis or universally unacceptable behavior sometimes the way we react to someone keeps those types away from us because they KNOW they won't get the response they want & go looking for another place they can
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