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Old May 08, 2021, 11:13 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I think in absence of actual diagnosis many things are subjective. A lot of is an opinion.

Some people describe some horrendous unacceptable events in their lives and claim it’s all good and dandy while I am mortified to hear such things and some describe events as toxic while I think it’s just everyday routine that everyone deals with on a daily basis. .

So it all depends. Much of it is a perception. Unless of course it’s an actual diagnosis or something universally unacceptable, which are very few things.
Totally agree.

Also, Perception is relative to our own personal skills of being able to handle certain situations. I know certain situations I find myself in it is just a matter of figuring out what action I need to take while for others it would be totally overwhelming.

Even with a diagnosis or universally unacceptable behavior sometimes the way we react to someone keeps those types away from us because they KNOW they won't get the response they want & go looking for another place they can
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