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TishaBuv
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Default May 10, 2021 at 08:01 AM
 
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That nasty comment he made, which was unprovoked by me, was the ‘hands to my throat’. It is clear to me to run. He truly hates me underneath his pretend love or he would never have made the lowest blow to hurt me like that. I know what I have to do.

It’s just me and my son visiting my mother today. I asked him to stay away for good, but he refuses, said he’d be back tonight. I’ll have to get the strength up for the lawyer again. I have horrific anxiety about that!
My sister has it worse and she stays and doesn’t react. My mother only was miffed that her SIL wasn’t coming over to dote on her on Mother’s Day and made zero comment of support. I actually told her, “I need support and if I’m not going to get any from you, well, it is what it is.”

I guess his barb was not enough for my family to say get out. What if he had physically assaulted me, would they have said run?

So, now I am backing down once again, no more steam. He’s acting like nothing happened. He said he was sorry for the comment and that’s it.

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