I have three female friends that like to hang out in a group only it seems like. I introduced two of the women to each other. One already knew another woman in the group. They all used to initiate plans with me back and forth usually when we hung out one on one. Why are they being this way with me now? We've known each other for 4 years.

Once we started hanging out in the group, the one on one contact disappeared. Anyways, after that, only one lady would initiate plans once in awhile, but it mostly seemed like I was usually the person making plans with the group.

Now no one makes any plans with me anymore. I had to initiate the last three times. It's very annoying! I even stated in a recent group text that I did that the last three times and that I'd appreciate it if someone could plan one of our friends upcoming birthdays. One lady said yes, she is the only one who was usually good at making plans too. The other two women ignored me. Th e lady who's birthday is coming up gets a pass as she moved.

The other one just seems lazy and doesn't seem to care about friendship that much. Also, I was wondering if maybe they're fading on me. They all know about my issues with depression and anxiety. I feel like they might not be as OK with it as I thought.

I often get ignored in the group, and that's been happening almost since we started hanging out in the group. I'm an introvert and two of the women are extroverts. They all have more in common with each other than they do with me. I'm not jealous, I'm just stating facts.

What should I say to my friends without upsetting them? If they don't change, I think I'll end my friendship with all of them soon as I'm sick of this. I'm a good friend and I don't deserve to be dismissed and ignored. To make matters worse, they often give me no answer back for days when I try to make plans.

It's like no answer means no. To not even say no is rude I think. When they finally say yes, it takes a few days to get an answer all of the time. I know that people get busy, are not sure of things, but this is to much! All the time? I feel disrespected like I'm their last option for when they have nothing better to do.

I suspect they're hanging out with each other without me these days.