First, I'd live wherever my partner was, but if I had my druthers I'd move back to Germany. In general, German society is much more socially and politically enlightened than the USA is these days. Healthcare, daycares, homes for the aging, etc. are all subsidized, & they truly learned the lessons of World War II. There's also more of a sense of community there.
The movie "Nomadland" won the Best Picture Oscar this year. It depicts people who travel the country in tricked-out vehicles, trailers, or campers, living the lives of modern nomads. Would you live living mobile?